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#Tbt to 2006, a rare photo of the whole family unit together I remember this day very well, it was my younger daughter’s baptism. We...

Romantic Relationships

It’s hard to know what a healthy romantic relationship is when you’ve never had it modelled to you🧐. I didn’t get to know my parents...

Continuing Patterns

#tbt 2001 in Nigerian🇳🇬 I lost my authentic self due to the childhood trauma. Kids are experts at dissociating😵‍💫 & therefore...

Wedding Anniversary

Seems surreal that 27 years ago today I got married, I had just turned 18 & he was 33😳. Seemed perfectly fine to me back then but now...

The Good In The Bad

#TBT to Nigeria 2001 I love this picture🥰, it’s definitely one of my favourites, it’s in my office where I can always see it❤️ It...

Mom vs The Government

I’m really sad today, I just dropped off my eldest daughter at the airport, she’s on her way to Guatemala. I’ve been holding back my...

What's My Next Move?

Written on January 8th, 2022 What’s my next move? I have no idea. I’m triggered, so much anxiety feels like I can’t breathe, there’s a...