The Journey From Abandonment to Healing by Susan Anderson
I absolutely loved this book😍, I especially appreciated how it’s solution based✅ I learned a whole lot about abandonment trauma which...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Jul 20
- 2 min
Self- Hate
I hated myself for a long time. I put myself in really bad situations more than once. Getting drunk, blacking out & waking up with no...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Jul 13
- 2 min
Divorce & It’s Effect
#tbt to 1986 in Cancun, Mexico 🇲🇽 : My parents had decided to take one last vacation to save their marriage. It obviously failed, my...
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Sarah Choujounian
- May 18
- 2 min
You Can Leave Too
#Tbt to 2006, a rare photo of the whole family unit together I remember this day very well, it was my younger daughter’s baptism. We...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Jan 30
- 2 min
Romantic Relationships
It’s hard to know what a healthy romantic relationship is when you’ve never had it modelled to you🧐. I didn’t get to know my parents...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Jan 26
- 3 min
Continuing Patterns
#tbt 2001 in Nigerian🇳🇬 I lost my authentic self due to the childhood trauma. Kids are experts at dissociating😵💫 & therefore...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Dec 29, 2022
- 3 min
Wedding Anniversary
Seems surreal that 27 years ago today I got married, I had just turned 18 & he was 33😳. Seemed perfectly fine to me back then but now...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Dec 27, 2022
- 2 min
I Got My Own Back
As I was driving🚗 back from an overwhelming trip to the mall on Boxing Day🙄, my daughter Latoya asked me if I had heard from Ashley, a...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Dec 22, 2022
- 2 min
My Light Is Your Light
It’s crazy how once you do your work & embark on the journey❤️🩹, all the parts that you’ve healed in yourself can also be used to guide...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Dec 18, 2022
- 1 min
Discovering The Inner Mother
I was quite excited to read this book but in all due honesty, I was super disappointed😒 It’s a little too woke for me😫 I feel as though...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Nov 10, 2022
- 2 min
Keeping An Open Heart
Spoke to my dad this week, I thought that maybe he had had enough time to think about what I had said & came to his senses so I returned...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Oct 26, 2022
- 2 min
Parenting Parents
#tbt to some time maybe in 1985 I was always told by family members of how great of a child I was…kind, caring, very easy going & never...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Oct 13, 2022
- 2 min
Sexual Abuse & Pleasure
#tbt to sometime probably in 1983 Sexual abuse is not always what people think it is🤔, it’s not always physically painful. As a matter...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Oct 6, 2022
- 2 min
Unhealed Inner Child Wounds Repeat Themselves
#tbt to august 1998 in Nigeria after my ex was deported🇳🇬 My ex husband was emotionally & physically abusive, he always gave me...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Sep 22, 2022
- 2 min
Coping Mechanisms
#tbt to sometime in 2000, when I was totally lost🥴 👉Eating🎂🍦🍫 may have made me fat but it also helped me suppress emotions that I...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Sep 18, 2022
- 1 min
Estrangement
Estrangement…it might be one of the most confusing, painful and difficult parts of healing…I hate it, it truly breaks my heart & hurts so...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Aug 5, 2022
- 2 min
My Struggle & Healing With Romantic Relationships
I haven’t been in a relationship since 2008 when I left my ex husband😮. I hated man for a while, at least I thought I did, until I...
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Sarah Choujounian
- Mar 10, 2022
- 2 min
Abandonment Issues
I lost 2 people who I thought were true friends in the last few weeks…painful. It triggered my abandonment issues all the way back to my...
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